Excessive Database Polling in Enterprise Manager

I'm using Enterprise Manager to connect to the SQL server space on my shared Web hosting server. Because, however, that there are literally about a thousand other databases on the server, each time I connect, I'm forced to wait ten to fifteen minutes whil
e Enterprise Manager polls the server for all the databases.
Is there a way to force Enterprise Manager into connecting my database only and ignoring all others?
Thanks in advance.
Okies, problem solved. I just ended up using the database management tools built in to Web Matrix.